You have a few choices, Nancy, but not a million of them. And all of them will have a caveat: Short of getting a sit-on-top, which I don聮t think will work for the kind of paddling you want to do, you won聮t know what really fits until you go sit in one.

But there are certainly boats designed for larger paddlers, and with the capacity to handle 400 pounds (boater and gear). One candidate would be the Necky Looksha V ($1,699 polymer/$2,999 composite; necky.com). It聮s what聮s described as a 聯high-volume” kayak, meaning it has more interior room and is a little bit wider in the beam than most boats. Still, it聮s known for easy paddling and good tracking, and a rudder helps with maneuverability. Necky doesn聮t list a total weight capacity, but it聮s a big boat (over 17 feet), with roomy bow and stern hatches, so I shouldn聮t think 400 pounds would pose any real challenge to it, especially for lake paddling.
Better yet might be Wilderness Systems Tsunami 175 ($1,650; wildernesssystems.com). It聮s a roto-molded boat like the less-expensive Looksha, but it isn聮t quite as performance-oriented and is a bit wider and even more stable. The cockpit, in fact, is three inches wider and four inches longer than that on the Necky. It聮s rated to 400 pounds capacity, has a rudder, and comes with fore and aft stowage hatches as well as a small 聯day” hatch right behind the cockpit. Plenty of room for multi-day trips.
Lastly, Perception聮s Eclipse 17 Airalite ($2,400; kayaker.com) offers 425 pounds of weight capacity with a cockpit that聮s in between the Necky and Wilderness Systems boats. It聮s made from Airalite, a really wonderful material that offers the light weight and looks of composite boats but doesn聮t cost too much more than plastic.