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Tangerine flames swirled as Gerry Ward sat fireside, deep in thought, with campfire crackles and wafts of ember taking his mind far beyond the Scottish Highland surroundings. It鈥檚 a scene many of us know well: a starlit woodland evening spent cozied up around a fire ring. Yet for Ward, this solo backpacking trip beneath Scotland鈥檚 Cairngorms mountains was about more than stars and s鈥檓ores. Ward, now 56, had spent most of his adolescence and early adult years navigating deep-seated childhood trauma, which eventually led to issues like chronic anxiety and alcohol abuse. Solo treks through his native Scotland during the height of his struggles, his thirties, provided rare solace from stress, trauma, and depression. 鈥淚 was connecting with nature as a remedy to escape from all of that,鈥 he recalls.
When Ward became a father at age 42, he knew he had to get clean. 鈥淚 got professional help, but what helped me most of all was going back to nature,鈥 Ward says. For him, the fire-building process, from gathering raw materials to starting and then watching the blaze, was the most therapeutic part. 鈥淥nce the fire鈥檚 going, that鈥檚 when the real connection starts. The fire cracks, the smells鈥攊t goes back into our subconscious minds. We connect with our primeval brain, and that connection is a quarter of a million years old.鈥
Ward spent every spare weekend for more than a decade navigating recovery via these solitary fireside meditations. After realizing how much it helped him, Ward invited a friend who was struggling to join, too. It turns out, campfire camaraderie was what they both needed. 鈥淲hen you get two people around the fire, the inevitable happens: you start talking,鈥 he says. 鈥淲e were sharing things we would never normally share, like deep-rooted trauma. By just talking about something, you鈥檙e breaking the power it has over you.鈥
Since 2021, Ward has been using the healing benefits of fire to help those struggling with mental health challenges and addiction through his Scotland-based nonprofit, . He runs monthly retreats in Scotland鈥檚 great outdoors that harness the healing power of campfires. He鈥檚 not the only one tapping into fire鈥檚 therapeutic effects.
As the popularity of eco- and adventure-therapy grows, so, too, does the role of campfires. 鈥淔ire, like the other natural elements, has the ability to help someone be more comfortable in the discomfort of change processes like therapy,鈥 says Brian Strozewski, a certified clinical adventure therapist and founder of Ohio-based .
Campfire therapy is simple: the idea is to use the fire ring鈥檚 healing and soothing benefits to help people open up while navigating trauma. in the journal Evolutionary Psychology suggested that fireside sitting can decrease blood pressure, foster relaxation, and improve social interactions. Counselors and organizations around the world have watched these results unfold before their eyes.
鈥淪itting around campfires, being around likeminded individuals who have gone through similar trauma experiences, then having the opportunity to talk in a safe environment about your trauma鈥攖hose are all healing things,鈥 says combat-wounded Marine Corporal of U.S.-based , a nonprofit that uses eco-therapy and specialized care to help post-9/11 veterans improve mental and physical health.
It鈥檚 a critical need; suicide is the second-leading cause of all post-9/11 veteran deaths.
The White Heart Foundation hosts eco-adventure therapy retreats to help veterans and first responders cope with trauma and psychological stressors from the frontline. The trips, run among the pines and peaks of Wyoming, Utah, Oregon, and Colorado, fulfill participants鈥 adrenaline needs with adventures like rock climbing and whitewater rafting. 鈥淭he healing comes when people sit around the fire,鈥 Morgan says.
Fireside sharing is peer-led. Veteran mentors, such as Morgan, a Purple Heart recipient who lost his legs during an IED accident in Afghanistan, start with their own personal stories. 鈥淲e鈥檝e had groups with people extremely closed off, they hardly say a single word during the first couple of days of the trip,鈥 says Morgan. 鈥淏y the end, they鈥檙e sharing their story with everyone. It鈥檚 an amazing transformation.鈥
As , sharing feelings, especially putting negative emotions and experiences into words, is an important step toward recovery and improved mental health. Ward says the fire provides a safe, less vulnerable place to open up.
鈥淭hey鈥檙e not speaking to me, or anyone in particular. They鈥檙e speaking to the fire,鈥 he says. 鈥淚鈥檝e watched someone do an entire share of 45 minutes, and blink two or three times [without looking] at an individual. That鈥檚 the start of the healing process.鈥
Let鈥檚 be very clear: Fireside sharing, or really any sort of therapeutic nature experiences, is only one part of a more extensive therapy program. 鈥淪itting by a campfire is not a magical fix to the issues,鈥 says Morgan, noting many veteran participants have seen, or continue to see, therapists or counselors. 鈥淚 believe [campfire sharing] is a helpful gateway for individuals to realize they need professional help.鈥
Some therapists, including Strozewski, use natural elements, such as forests and campfires, to aid their sessions. 鈥淚 connect with nature as more of a co-regulator, almost like a friend or partner who is present to help the person be regulated, to feel safe, and to have internal balance,鈥 he says. And, just like, say, rock climbing, isn鈥檛 for everyone, Strozewski notes that fireside chatting isn鈥檛 always the right call. 鈥淚t鈥檚 important to consider someone鈥檚 existing relationship with fire.鈥
One reason Strozewski says campfires work well with nature therapy is that they鈥檙e a symbol of letting go. 鈥淟etting go of the pains and learning what that process is like is necessary so we aren鈥檛 tethered [to negative emotions],鈥 he says. 鈥淲e can move forward to what鈥檚 next.鈥
For years, certified therapeutic recreation specialist Kevin Gruzewski watched this release firsthand. He ran at a residential facility for teenage boys undergoing drug rehabilitation and mental health recovery in Chicago, Illinois. During these sessions, the teens jotted down their regrets, gathered by a fire, and tossed the papers into the flames. After experiencing the fire鈥檚 therapeutic effects, they enjoyed the lighthearted fun many associate with campfire hangouts: talking, joking, playing games, and sharing s鈥檓ores.
鈥淢ost of them were from the inner city; they hadn鈥檛 experienced a bonfire or being in nature,鈥 Gruzewski says. 鈥淪ome of the boys did or dealt with pretty rough things, so you could tell some of them liked that feeling of letting go, even just for that moment.鈥