Peak performance聽happens as a result of trying really hard, and then not trying at all. It鈥檚 a paradox. I鈥檝e never met someone who has described a breakthrough performance as effortful or straining or tight. It鈥檚 the opposite: when people are at their best鈥攚hether it鈥檚 on the playing field, in the workplace, or in the artist鈥檚 studio鈥攖hey report feeling loose, relaxed, and at ease. They aren鈥檛 thinking and they certainly aren鈥檛 trying. They are effortlessly flowing,聽one action leading to the next,聽completely immersed in what they are doing,聽in the zone.
In the 1970s, a psychologist named coined this state of optimal performance as flow. Flow is most likely to occur when as little as possible gets between an actor and his or her act. That鈥檚 why a is feeling as if you鈥檙e at one with what you鈥檙e doing. The less that gets in the way鈥攄oubt, worry, planning, wearable devices鈥攖he better.
Unfortunately, you can鈥檛 just pick up an activity and decide to get into flow. Even something as simple as running requires a learning period during which you鈥檝e got to put forth effort and try. You鈥檝e got to make things happen before you can let them happen.
A model of human development called the four phases of competence聽captures this progression quite well. Developed in the 1970s聽by an employee of the , this model suggests that individuals advance from unconscious incompetence聽to conscious incompetence,聽to conscious competence,聽to unconscious competence. The endgame may be a total release from trying鈥攆low鈥攂ut you鈥檝e got to work your way there.

Unconscious incompetence聽is what most of us experience when we are brand-new to something. We don鈥檛 know what we鈥檙e doing, and we don鈥檛 know that we don鈥檛 know what we鈥檙e doing. At this stage, the focus should be on humility and learning the basics. We鈥檝e got to get our bearings before we can get moving.
Conscious incompetence is when you鈥檙e making mistakes but you鈥檙e aware that you鈥檙e making mistakes. During this phase, thinking, analyzing, and trying is the very stuff that allows you to move forward.
From there you progress to conscious competence: you鈥檙e doing whatever it is you are doing correctly, but not without effort. You rely upon your thinking mind and moment-by-moment feedback. During this phase,聽wearable devices and data are extremely useful. They provide confirmation that you鈥檙e on the right track, and they alert you when you鈥檙e not聽so that you can course correct. You鈥檙e trying superhard and finally getting it right! This is a great feeling. This is聽also the juncture, however, where聽most people get stuck.
That鈥檚 because in order to progress to the peak phase of development, to unconscious competence鈥攖o flow鈥攜ou鈥檝e got to release from thinking and trying and just settle in. This requires shedding all the trying that got you so far. Here is where you ditch the GPS watch and heart-rate monitor and all the pressure you put on yourself to succeed. All the stuff that helped you along the way鈥攂oth physical and psychological鈥攏ow becomes baggage,聽the barrier between you and the direct experience of whatever you鈥檙e doing,聽the barrier between being good and being great.
shows that individuals who enter flow states have progressed through the four phases of competence. What鈥檚 interesting to me is that in this current moment聽there is so much technology marketed to help people achieve peak performance, and yet it鈥檚 this very technology, and all the thinking and trying that comes with it, that often gets in the way! The solution would be easy if this technology served no purpose鈥攜ou鈥檇 just do away with it. But generally speaking, the technology does serve a purpose. It鈥檚 instrumental in helping people move from unconscious incompetence to conscious competence. It works great. Until it doesn鈥檛.
Unfortunately, there鈥檚 no easy way to know when you鈥檙e ready to release your grip on trying and settle into flow. But one of the best cues is when you鈥檝e been performing well鈥攂ut not great鈥攆or a few months and, at the same time, you鈥檙e getting tired of trying,聽when what was once exciting and expansive starts to feel tedious and constricting. This is a sign that the time is right to release. And it is only then, when you let go of the very thing that has got you so far, that you open up to your best performance.聽
Brad Stulberg () is a performance coach and writes聽翱耻迟蝉颈诲别鈥s Do It Better column. He is the author of the bestselling book聽 and .