Deepak Chopra is the preeminent thought leader in self-realization, and in his new podcast on Audible, , he鈥檚 bringing personal mindfulness to another level. The podcast, he says, is not about learning to live outside the box, but rather how to ditch the box altogether: 鈥淚 wanted to reveal that there are people who are not burdened by this social conditioning, and they are the creative people who change the world.鈥 Chopra鈥檚 guests鈥擮prah Winfrey, Jessamyn Stanley, Jon Batiste, and more鈥攁re those kinds of people. Their insightful conversations鈥攃oupled with Dr. Chopra鈥檚 guided meditations鈥攎ight just hold the key to unlocking the creative potential in all of us. Intrigued? We boiled down each episode into a reason why you need to give this podcast a listen.
1. Learn Self-Acceptance
Jessamyn Stanley used to be afraid of her body鈥攁fraid of calling it what it is: fat. The world cringes at that adjective, loading it with negative connotations that render it an insult rather than a descriptor. Through yoga, Stanley, now a body-positivity advocate, writer, and yoga teacher, found deep acceptance of her body and her identity. Her biggest takeaway: the journey to self-acceptance often means traveling through鈥攁nd embracing鈥攄iscomfort.
2. Discover that Vulnerability Is Strength
In 1993, Dr. Chopra was a guest on Oprah Winfrey鈥檚 show and was impressed when he watched her come up against a moment that asked her to be vulnerable. She opened up to her audience, even though it was scary. 鈥淲hat I learned from speaking the truth about myself is fully understanding that my truth belongs to so many people,鈥 says Winfrey. Many people hide behind a self-image, present it to the world, and then attempt the difficult task of trying to live up to the image, says Dr. Chopra. His advice: lean into your vulnerabilities鈥攖hey鈥檙e among your greatest strengths.
3. Understand Trauma to Overcome It
Traditionally, addictions have been addressed through the treatment of symptoms. To Gabor Mat茅, a physician, author, and expert on trauma and addiction, this is wrong. 鈥淎ddiction is always a response to pain,鈥 he says. Addiction tries to get a person to feel normal experiences that all humans desire: control, pleasure, peace of mind. The real problem to focus on, he says, is how people lose their sense of pleasure and control in the first place, not the self-soothing behaviors they adopt afterward. 鈥淟et鈥檚 heal the pain, let鈥檚 heal the trauma, then the person won鈥檛 need to resort to addictive behaviors.鈥 Dr. Chopra wonders, is there anyone on the planet who doesn鈥檛 have an addiction?
4. Find the Value of Interconnectedness
Professor, ecologist, and author Suzanne Simard compares human interconnectedness to a forest鈥檚. 鈥淣etworks link all the trees together in the forest. When we were ripping forests apart they were getting sick,鈥 she says. In this underground web of fungi, the trees communicate with one another: their health, their stresses, etc. The connection and communication of the network are crucial to the health of each individual. Dr. Chopra points out that a person鈥檚 chance of surviving a heart attack is directly linked to the amount of support that person has in life. 鈥淪omeone with little or none is much more likely not to survive,鈥 he says. Life needs connection; it鈥檚 much harder to survive without it.
聽5. Grow Comfortable with Uncertainty
When ultrarunner Coree Woltering ran 1,200 miles in 21 days, he demonstrated how we all should be living our lives: 鈥渆mbracing the unknown, and in a slow but methodical manner looking at our habitual certainties and how they disappoint us,鈥 says Dr. Chopra. How did Woltering do it? By mentally breaking down each day of his journey into digestible intervals. He counted to ten over and over again in order to stay present and in the moment and avoid giving in to the urge to try to control the future. 鈥淭he unknown is our only reality,鈥 says Dr. Chopra. 鈥淗uman suffering comes from the need for predictability, but fundamental reality is unpredictable.鈥
6. Learn How to Practice Silence
After surviving a school shooting, X Gonz谩lez led one of the largest single-day protests against gun violence. At the protest they stood silently on the podium for four minutes in front of a sweeping crowd. 鈥淵ou鈥檙e expecting something to take you away from your thoughts and now you have to be face-to-face with them,鈥 says Gonz谩lez. Many people in the audience started to cry. 鈥淓veryone in the crowd was feeling the same thing without discussion.鈥 This is the power of silence: sometimes words can鈥檛 possibly say enough. 鈥淭he journey to find out who you really are is a silent journey,鈥 says Dr. Chopra. 鈥淭he mind can only know itself in silent meditation and reflection.鈥
7. Make Contact with Your Creativity
鈥淟ife itself, including your life and mine, cannot exist without creativity,鈥 says Dr. Chopra. Jon Batiste, a musician and the leader of the band Stay Human, is an expert at tapping into his. For Batiste, the creative process means making space. 鈥淐learing the way for the subconscious mind…to speak…so I can have, from a divine source, the objective,鈥 he says. We must clear the obstacles that keep us from feeling inspired in order to find our own creativity. And it鈥檚 not just painters and poets and writers who have intrinsic creativity: we are all creative and we can all have access to inspiration鈥攚e just have to figure out how to tap into it.
8. Start the Healing Process
If pain is inevitable, then we must figure out how to heal from our wounds in order to live a full life. Layla F. Saad, antiracism educator and author of , finds healing in her work. 鈥淚 see it as, 鈥榃hat is it that we don鈥檛 know that we need to learn so that we can have a light shone on the parts of ourselves and our lives that are causing harm to ourselves and to other people?鈥欌 she says. According to Dr. Chopra, there鈥檚 a secret about healing: 鈥淚f you don鈥檛 feel inspired by your own healing you won鈥檛 start the process,鈥 he says. Healing isn鈥檛 just for the sick; healing is for everyone, and it begins 鈥渨ith an honest look at the area that is wounded,鈥 he says.
9. Get in Touch with Your Spirit
Joy Harjo, U.S. poet laureate and member of the Muscogee (Creek) Nation, says she鈥檚 still becoming a poet. 鈥淧oetry was a way to give voice to my experiences as a young Native woman,鈥 she says. 鈥淭he spirit of poetry looked at me and said, 鈥榊ou poor thing, you don鈥檛 know how to listen.鈥 I鈥檓 not the best listener, but I am still learning.鈥 Dr. Chopra says that if you ask people if they鈥檙e spiritual, 鈥渁lmost always the answer is hesitant.鈥 The word spiritual is difficult to define. 鈥淛oy Harjo鈥檚 journey makes it clear that spirituality isn鈥檛 static or fixed. Spirit is alive and it leads you on your own path.鈥
10. Recall Importance of Staying Curious
Astrophysicist and author Avi Loeb was once asked by the Harvard Gazette what the one thing is that he鈥檇 like to change about the world. 鈥淢y reply was, I would like my colleagues in academia to behave more like kids,鈥 he says. Why? Because wonder is crucial to life, and we benefit from exercising curiosity often. How can we use our innate curiosity to better our lives? Start by finding something that intrigues you and then explore it, says Dr. Chopra. 鈥淚 make a point of learning one thing every day that I don鈥檛 know, and improving my physical capacity in one way every day.鈥澛
11. Overcome Shame
It鈥檚 hard to pursue meaning and happiness when you鈥檙e stressed about rent or food, says Wendy De La Rosa, professor at The Wharton School and co-founder of . But, more often than not, she says, people experiencing financial constraints hide that fact from others. 鈥淲e鈥檝e been taught to internalize the blame: part of the reason why I鈥檓 not financially successful is solely my fault. And that鈥檚 just not true,鈥 she says. Ultimately, says Dr. Chopra, all shame stems from one false belief: that you鈥檙e not enough. You are enough. How can you get to a place where you believe it?
12. Discover How to Just Be
The first sentence of Jenny Odell鈥檚 book, , reads: Nothing is harder than doing nothing. 鈥淚 think that some of the difficulty of 鈥榙oing nothing鈥 has to do with conditioning, at least the conditioning that I know I was brought up with in terms of always feeling like you need to be producing something,鈥 she says. She doesn鈥檛 mean literally nothing, but rather just what seems like nothing in our productivity-obsessed society. What is the nature of being and how can we learn how to just be?
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