We鈥檙e leaving this weekend for a two-day backcountry ski trip to in the San Juan Mountains in southern Colorado. It鈥檚 part of our New Year鈥檚 resolution to camp every month with our children. But as we prep our gear, rig our bike trailers with skis, plot our menus, and talk up the thrill of spending two nights sleeping in a glorified, canvas-walled wilderness tent, I can鈥檛 help but wonder if our kids are as excited as we are.
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Probably not鈥攐r at least not in the same way we are. After all, they鈥檙e two and four. The last time we skied into a yurt, our younger daughter was 18 months, too little to remember. They don鈥檛 know that Spruce Hole has access to some great, low-angle ski runs through the trees, in four feet of fresh powder, or even what that means. They can鈥檛 anticipate the peace that will come from being away from all-things electronic for two days. They鈥檙e more interested in choosing what kinds of treats we鈥檒l bring, which stuffed animal to pack, and how we鈥檙e going to tow their plastic sled to the yurt. No doubt they鈥檇 be just as happy staying here, skiing at our local mountain, and playing Candy Land with our six-year-old neighbor.
But we go, so they go. It鈥檚 so much better together. And I know they鈥檙e growing up with adventure in their blood. It’s what we do, and what they know. They love splashing in the mud on river trips, don鈥檛 think twice about getting filthy when we camp, and never balk at swimming in chilly, brown desert rivers. We鈥檙e lucky鈥攕o far. Kids are mercurial. I鈥檓 aware that everything could change. I don鈥t wanna go! Then what?
My colleague Michael Lanza, who created the family adventure blog , recently wrote a terrific story about how to cultivate in your children a genuine love of being outside. His kids are older than ours, and by now they are adventure kids by choice鈥their choice. Below are his top three tips. For seven more great ideas, read his at The Big 国产吃瓜黑料.
DITCH THE STROLLER
As soon as your toddler can walk, give some friends that stroller and let your child walk everywhere you go, whether around town or on a trail. Sure, walking with a little one requires patience. But it turns children into strong hikers at a young age and gets them used to the idea that they will walk rather than be carried.
I preferred a child-carrier backpack to a stroller, even in urban settings, for those occasions when my kids needed a break from walking. It gives you exercise, is more convenient on stairs, and helps communicate to kids that our family carries packs鈥攖hat we鈥檙e hikers.
DON’T GIVE IN TO FRUSTRATION
Hiking, camping, or doing almost anything outdoors with babies, toddlers, and preschoolers is often more work than fun. Don鈥檛 get discouraged; take them out anyway. If you wait until they鈥檙e older you may find that your child isn鈥檛 interested. Introduce children to the outdoors while they鈥檙e very young and make it part of your family lifestyle, so that you nurture in them a long-term love for it.
TAKE BABY STEPS
Don鈥檛 push your kids too hard. This one鈥檚 especially hard for parents who have always been very active, but pushing them risks creating a negative association with the outdoors. Start small, with short hikes, and work gradually up to longer outings. Think of it as pulling them along rather than pushing them. What鈥檚 familiar and easy to you may seem scary and intimidating to a kid. Evaluate your child鈥檚 readiness for something new based not just on its physical difficulty, but how well your child handled previous experiences that presented comparable stress.
Michael Lanza gives talks and slideshow presentations about taking kids into the wilderness. His book about taking his young kids on 11 wilderness adventures in national parks facing threats from climate change, , is available from Beacon Press.