By all accounts, I鈥檓 a red-blooded American male. I drive a lifted truck.聽I ride a fast motorcycle.聽I shoot guns.聽I go camping.聽I harvest my own meat.聽I鈥檓 listening to Van Halen while I write this. But聽a lot of the time, this place just doesn鈥檛 feel like home anymore. If it鈥檚 not somebody telling me how to live my own life, it鈥檚 somebody judging someone else about theirs.聽
So, for the past year, I鈥檝e been running off to Mexico. Last week, my friends and I even celebrated the most American of holidays there, holding our annual outdoor Thanksgiving on a beach in Baja. While we were talking about what we were thankful for this year, something about doing that down there just felt right鈥攔ight in a way that doing it in America wouldn鈥檛 have. I think this is why.聽
Baja Is聽an Off-Road Paradise
Want to know if it鈥檚 okay to take your truck, motorcycle, or ATV off-road somewhere in Baja? It is. It鈥檚 that simple.聽
Obviously, sticking to dirt roads, trails, and beaches is the best idea. Not only does doing so mean you stand less of a chance of getting stuck聽or breaking your vehicle, but it also prevents damage to the environment. Plus, leaving a trail is often mechanically impossible. What makes Baja聽special is its vast number of trails and dirt roads. Locked gates are virtually unheard of.聽
That freedom to explore allows you to choose your own adventure. My approach is simply to find a beach that looks good on Google Earth, figure out a way to get to it, and then find a way to get down onto the sand once I鈥檓 there. If that formula doesn鈥檛 produce a good camping trip, you can always聽move on to the next beach.
In Baja, Solitude Is聽the Norm
In the United States, beaches where you can take a vehicle are the exception, and you鈥檒l almost always聽share聽them with dozens of other people. In Mexico, odds are you鈥檒l have it to yourself.聽
If you don鈥檛 want to camp on a beach, you can camp in the mountains, jungle, or desert. And you鈥檒l be alone there, too. If not, just go a little farther.聽
This year, we opted to make our little Thanksgiving on-road accessible聽so a few people without trucks聽or the wherewithal to navigate through the wilderness could join. We聽ended up in an organized campground. We had it to ourselves.聽
This ability to get away from people is inherent to the draw of doing stuff outdoors. So a place that makes finding solitude easy聽is inherently a better place to play outside.聽
Mexico Is Full of Friendly People
I鈥檝e been all over the United States聽this year:聽upstate New York, the White Mountains, rural South Dakota, the Washington woods, mountain towns in New Mexico, and a lot of places in between. One聽thing聽that鈥檚 been bugging me is that the typically friendly encounters you鈥檇 expect have been absent, replaced instead by polarization, judgment, and suspicion. I hope it鈥檚 temporary, but rural America, in particular, just hasn鈥檛 been feeling like home.聽
Know a place where I haven鈥檛 had a single conversation about politics? Where I haven鈥檛 heard a single racist epithet? Where I haven鈥檛 witnessed gay people being disparaged聽or worse? Where I haven鈥檛 had to stand up for anybody based on their race, creed, or religion? You guessed it鈥攕outh of the border.聽
Sit down with some locals there for a beer, some tacos, or a smoke, and you鈥檒l talk about where to catch fish, what to catch them with, where they鈥檙e from, where you鈥檙e from, what their kids are doing, and what they hope they鈥檒l do. You know, the kind of conversations you鈥檇 expect to have in a small town聽with normal people. At least that鈥檚 my experience.聽
Need help in Mexico? Just ask someone. Contributor Chris Brinlee Jr. burned out his clutch while stuck in the sand on a beach I sent him to in Baja. The price for both tow and repair? The $100 or so he had in his wallet, plus a pair of Ray-Bans he was wearing聽to make up the difference. And the mechanic鈥檚 wife cooked him tamales while he waited.聽
Last Wednesday, after a sandstorm destroyed our tents, we were invited into a family鈥檚 home for a big breakfast of eggs and hot dogs. They didn鈥檛 have much聽but were happy to share it.聽
In Baja, the Food Is聽Fresh
Mexico has some of the best fishing in the world.聽On Saturday, my friends and I caught 30 yellowtail. We gave some to the guy who took us out in his boat for $100, put a few on ice to bring home, and,聽with the aid of beer and flour, turned the rest into fish tacos that we ate right there on the beach.聽
Driving along and find yourself hungry? You don鈥檛 stop at a McDonald鈥檚 for sugar and saturated fat.聽You stop at a roadside taco stand where a grandmother cooks to order. There鈥檚 typically very little protein available at local stores in rural places like Baja. Instead, they sell the ingredients you need to turn the protein you catch yourself into a tasty meal. That sounds like an ideal arrangement to this proponent of scoring your own wild-caught meat.聽
Mexico Is Just a Little Bit Dangerous
Here in the United States, the most dangerous thing most people do is drive their cars. Something , regardless.聽
Take your eyes off the road while driving in Mexico, and odds are聽you鈥檒l careen over a cliff, blow out your tires in a pothole, or run into a black cow at night. As a tourist,聽you鈥檙e actually less likely to be the victim of violent crime in Mexico聽than you are in the United States, but that doesn鈥檛 stop the country from having its own little tinge of danger.聽
Military checkpoints dot the highways. News stories about cartels kidnapping tourists pop up every few years. You hear rumors about corrupt cops, bribes, and carjackings. But in reality, it鈥檚 the emptiness of Baja that represents the only real danger. Head way out in the middle of nowhere, and there are聽no hospitals, no ambulances to take you to one even if they existed, and no one to come along and help you if you get hurt.聽
Personal Freedom Still Exists There
You鈥檙e responsible for your own safety in Mexico. Just like anywhere, that鈥檚 more about not slipping and falling聽or having a car accident聽than聽trading gunfire with banditos.
While pulled over at one of the military checkpoints, my dog and I hopped out of the truck so some soldiers could search it. One opened my door, found the big knife and can of bear spray I keep in that pocket, waved them around in the air while making Rambo jokes, and then interrogated me with gusto about the capability of the winch mounted on my front bumper聽before smiling and telling me to have a good day.聽
Want to camp somewhere in Mexico? Go camp there. Want to stroll through a small town with a big knife on your hip, a cowboy hat on your head, and your dog off-leash? No one鈥檚 going to stop you. Want to catch a fish? Hope you brought bait. In Mexico, at least in the rural places, no one鈥檚 trying to tell you what to do. Your ability to conduct an activity safely聽and without damaging the environment聽is up to your skill and intelligence, not a sign, a cop, or a social justice warrior. The only thing you can鈥檛 do in Mexico is bring a gun along.聽
And to this American, that freedom is something that just feels right.聽
Why am I telling you all this? Hopefully, it will encourage you to keep an open mind, to visit, and maybe even to help spread the word that Mexico is聽a really neat聽place.聽
Right now is a great time to visit. In the wake of Donald Trump鈥檚 election, the peso ,聽and crossing the border may not always be as easy as it is in its current, wall-free state. It鈥檚 cold here.聽It鈥檚 warm there. And nobody鈥檚 going to ask who you voted for, I promise.聽