Buying something we want聽but don鈥檛 necessarily need聽brings an聽undeniable rush. Our overflowing closets, attics, and garages testify to the powerful allure of new toys聽and聽gadgets. But what do you think would bring more happiness in the long run:聽that new curved-screen HDTV聽or an African safari?
According to that still keep popping up in the headlines, it鈥檚 human nature to equate happiness with tangible stuff. After all, why spend your hard-earned money on a two-week trip to Bhutan聽when that designer living聽room set you bought instead will be around for years, reminding you day after day of its fabulousness?聽
Because all those awesome objects will never make you a happy person. The human mind has a perverse 鈥攅ven pricey things like electronics, clothing, furniture, wedding rings, you name it. On the other hand, even the anticipation of an experience, whether it鈥檚 going to a concert, fishing with friends, or planning a bucket-list trip, contributes to the overall happiness associated with the actual event.聽Even years later, being able to casually mention that you once went skydiving in Spain wears much better than name-dropping your car or television in a conversation. Bottom line: While a trip lasts only a set amount of days, its effect on your happiness lasts a lifetime. It鈥檚 a case of the clich茅 actually being true.
To drive home the point, we鈥檝e done some quick comparison shopping:聽five memorable experiences for you to ponder versus five undeniably awesome objects.
Starbucks vs. New Zealand
A large mocha聽will not only set you back $4.25, it鈥檒l also generously contribute, at 聽(depending), about a quarter of the calories you should consume in a day. That $4.25 adds up; so will the pounds.
The real thing:聽For the price of 100聽calorie bombs ($425), you can stay for a week in a big, sunny room at a highly rated , with access to the villa鈥檚 solar hot tub and just a short stroll to the city center. Nelson is one of New Zealand鈥檚 loveliest (and warmest) coastal towns, just across Tasman Bay from spectacular , with pristine golden beaches that are accessible only by hiking or water taxi.
Televisions聽vs. Jordan
Stream movies and TV shows instantly! Watch high-def images so 鈥渦ltra,鈥 you can see the pores on a porpoise! Sit back and feel your mind slipping into automatic pilot! Sure, that looks impressive, but after a month you鈥檒l hardly notice the difference anymore.
The real thing:聽For the same money, unleash your inner Lawrence of Arabia and book a , sleeping in desert camps and with a Bedouin as your guide. The valley鈥檚 vast shifting sands give way to sandstone mountains鈥攕ome with petroglyphs dating back thousands of years鈥攖hat are popular with rock climbers. You鈥檒l spend your last day at the 鈥淩ose City鈥 of Petra, a UNESCO Heritage Site whose breathtaking carved-from-sandstone architecture is unlike anything else, anywhere.
Clothing vs. Whitewater Rafting
Who really needs one more pair of shoes, one more handbag, one more sweater destined to disappear in the back of your chest of drawers? There are a lot of good ways to spend a hundred bucks, but buying more closet compost isn鈥檛 one of them.
The real thing:聽For a Benjamin and change ($115), thrill聽seekers can fasten their lifejackets and hang on for 10 miles through the in Maryland. This section of the Yough is one of the last remaining wilderness canyons in the eastern United States, with continuous Class IV鈥揤 rapids running for five miles.聽
Latest Tech vs. Antarctica
There were plenty of people who bought the when it became available or pre-sale. For $15,000.聽
The real thing:聽For the same price, the trip of a lifetime awaits鈥攁 . Depart from Ushuaia, Argentina,聽the southernmost city in the world, and head聽through Drake鈥檚 Passage, past the Antarctic Circle, to the continent that鈥檚 nearly 98 percent聽covered聽by ice聽and home to seals and penguins with no natural fear of humans.聽
Pricey Drinks vs. Road-Tripping
We love our bourbon-grapefruit-tamarind-lemon-with-poppyseed-tincture concoction as much as the next working stiff with a craft-cocktail palate and a PBR budget. But at $12 or $13 a pop, blowing off steam on the weekend can add up quickly.
The real thing:聽Discover聽some of the Southwest鈥檚 premier national parks鈥攊ncluding Grand Canyon, Arches, Bryce Canyon, Capital Reef, and Canyonlands鈥攐n a road trip.聽Set aside at least 10 days, and plan on covering about 1,200 miles.聽With the 聽and a 23 mpg average for a typical minivan, you can cover fill-ups for less than the cost of a dozen artisan cocktails.聽