The hat in my hands is unremarkable: a floppy, full-brimmed sailor鈥檚 cap with corroded buttons and wavy lines of salt and sweat. All battle scars from聽keeping my Irish skin from lobstering in the relentless South Pacific sun on a months-long聽sailing trip.
Now, a year and a half after my return to dry land,聽I’ve divided all of my worldly possessions into聽two piles on the floor of my bedroom:聽those to keep on the right, and those to donate on the left. This hat is destined for one or the other. I鈥檓 preparing to move from Santa Fe聽to Denver to start my first full-time gig as a magazine editor after years of internships, freelancer鈥檚 paychecks, and backpacking around the globe. The pile on my right needs to be small enough to fit in my car for the journey. The pile on the left will keep growing until it does.
The question I ask myself isn鈥檛,聽Does this spark joy?聽It鈥檚, Is it useful?
By now聽I鈥檝e become an expert at fitting my life into small spaces. Over the past five years, I鈥檝e lived in a dozen cities in half a dozen countries, mostly out of a backpack. Bouncing from place to place, I developed a process for winnowing down my possessions that鈥檚 remarkably similar to the now famous KonMari聽method. Developed by self-proclaimed tidying expert Marie Kondo鈥攐riginally in her 2014 book and now in the hit Netflix series鈥攖he method posits聽that reducing clutter in one鈥檚 home and life can be a path to happiness, in part by getting rid of items that no longer 鈥渟park joy.鈥澛燣ike Kondo鈥檚 system, traveling has forced me to聽reduce my possessions down to the items that are truly important and necessary.
Humans are like gas. Our stuff expands to fill the space we鈥檙e given. Every time I would move, I鈥檇 have to cull everything I鈥檇 acquired to fill my rented room or boat cabin down to what would fit into my backpack聽or, more recently, a 2001 Toyota Camry.听Only, the question I ask myself isn鈥檛, Does this spark joy?聽It鈥檚, Is it useful?
First聽I divide my possessions into broad categories like clothes, outdoor gear, or electronics. Subcategories such as T-shirts, jeans, and climbing equipment聽follow, each laid out in neat piles. From there it鈥檚 easy to see where I have too much stuff, and I start culling the largest pile. I keep a few things in mind:聽How well does each item work? How often do I use it? Do I have two or more belongings that perform a similar function? If I waver on the answer, the offending object聽is in danger of being tossed. By the time I鈥檓 through, I鈥檓 left with only what鈥檚 best and most vital. A small first-aid kit,聽camera,聽waterproof jacket, multitool, dive mask,聽and聽my Kindle loaded up with books and guides always seem to make the cut.
You can live off a lot less than you think, and memories don鈥檛 take up any space at all.
I wasn鈥檛 always this ruthless purger. As a kid, my dad nicknamed me Hector the Collector聽after my penchant for hanging on to anything and everything. My bedroom was bursting with junk鈥攔ocks, shells, paperclips, stickers, anything that I鈥檇 imbued with some sort of significant meaning. On my first international trip, 20-year-old me hauled two giant suitcases, a duffel bag, and a backpack, each filled to the brim聽with important things I 鈥渘eeded鈥 for six months of studying in South Africa. If not for the subsequent years spent as a nomad, my life could have come to resemble Hoarders rather than Kondo鈥檚 new reality show.
In June 2014, not long after I鈥檇 left South Africa and four months before Kondo published the book that would skyrocket her to fame, I purchased a one-way ticket to Southeast Asia, figuring I鈥檇 spend about three months working for a small conservation organization in the jungles of Borneo. Three months turned into three and a half years of globe-trotting, and while many of the ways traveling changed me were subtle, returning home to my parents鈥 house for the first time after that journey was a shock. I found my bedroom filled with everything from useless college textbooks to glittery middle school capris that no longer fit. I was face to face with my old self, and I hated it. The strong sentimental attachment I鈥檇 once given these things was gone. In its place, I found that I now feared my ability to pack up and leave at a moment鈥檚 notice. By the end of the week, I had rid聽myself of about 80 percent of everything I owned.
Now, as I鈥檓 purging for one more move and the possible end of my rambling days, the lessons I learned on the road bring a certain lightness to my life, even when I鈥檓 stationary.听You can live off a lot less than you think, and memories don鈥檛 take up any space at all.
Considering this, I look back down at my hat. I fondly remember long days on the water,聽but I also I recall its all too floppy brim and tendency to be whisked off my head in stiff breezes. Then I eye聽the next item鈥攁 new, almost identical hat I鈥檇 been gifted from a friend, this one with a rigid brim and lightweight fabric that keeps my head cool even on long summer hikes. So, as Kondo instructs, I thanked my old hat for its service and the times we鈥檇 spent together聽and tossed it to the left.