A few weeks ago, we were headed east on I-10 across southern Arizona en route to Rockhound State Park in Deming, New Mexico, when it became clear that we were going to have to drive into the night if we wanted to make our destination. We鈥檇 already been on the move since dawn, the low tangerine sun behind us cast long shadows from the saguaros, and Deming was still three hours up the road. In these pinch moments, when we鈥檙e tired, short on time, don鈥檛 want to hassle with setup鈥攁nd only in these moments鈥攊t鈥檚 tempting to pull Artemis, which is what we call our Airstream, into a Walmart. Many of the company鈥檚聽stores (though not all) allow RVs and trailers to camp in their lots, providing simplicity and succor to weary travelers. Scanning my phone, I discovered one just a few miles ahead, in the town of Benson.
Despite our fatigue, we did not stop. And neither should you.

This is nothing against Walmart. I鈥檓 no big fan of the superstores, but these days, when more cities are , it鈥檚 actually pretty cool that the company permits RVs and campers. (Aside: the stores are also often the only source of organic food in rural settings.) However, we avoid them because the experience is pretty much the antithesis of what we want out of road life. Staying in a parking lot with others is like eating fast food: sure it鈥檚 easy, but a visit to the grocery store will produce healthier鈥攊f simpler鈥攆ood and leave you feeling better afterward. The one time we took refuge in a big-box parking lot, we were anxious and exposed all night beneath the blue fluorescent lights, and felt cheap and dirty in the morning. Besides, camping in a parking lot is simply unnecessary, at least not in the American West.
After scanning my phone for a Walmart聽and resisting the temptation, I flipped over to the 翱苍齿听补辫辫 and discovered that we were surrounded by mountains. The Dragoons, the Chiricahuas, the Rinc贸ns, the Galiuros, the Pinale帽os鈥攖hey were all within an hour鈥檚 striking distance. And from the look of it, each was replete with public land. A quick cross-reference to produced a promising option: a place called Indian Bread Rocks, just south of Bowie, was less than an hour up the road and, judging by a satellite view, there were plenty of dispersed campsites tucked in a spray of rock outcrops. Plus, it looked to be only 15 minutes off the highway.
When we pulled in, the place was more stunning than we could have imagined: granite domes and boulders balanced in topsy-turvy piles like prehistoric sculptures. Since we鈥檇 only be staying overnight, we didn鈥檛 even unhook the trailer, which meant there was just enough time to pull out the camp chairs and sip some bourbon before the sun dropped below the jigsaw horizon. After dinner, we re-emerged into the desert-night chill to a spray of bone-white constellations on a black sky. And when we woke the next morning to a craggy view of the Dos Cabezas Mountains Wilderness spread to the south, we couldn鈥檛 resist a hike into the hills. Less than half a mile from Artemis, we discovered Indian Bread Rocks鈥檚 eponymous mortar and pestle holes in the granite shields, where Apaches and others once ground grain. These weren鈥檛 on some tourist circuit or even on a trail鈥攍ike all the best things, they鈥檙e out there to be found by anyone willing to poke around.

I鈥檓 tempted to say that the experience beat the one we would have had at Walmart, but that鈥檚 an absurd understatement. Sandwiching between a dozen campers in a concrete parking lot聽is as close to our experience at Bread Rocks as tract suburban housing is to a bucolic country bungalow. But you can鈥檛 spend every day in a vacation home, you might say. And that鈥檚 where you鈥檇 be wrong. Artemis is our mobile manor, and though we work from her as we go, a big reason we moved in was to escape the humdrum of daily life. Though the ease of road-side parking鈥攐r pushing hard and rushing to the next destination, or even returning to our fixed address when things aren鈥檛 going smoothly鈥攕ometimes seems appealing, silent mornings in wild places like Indian Bread Rocks, drinking coffee with a stunning view, and hiking into the hills even when we tell ourselves we don鈥檛 have the time, are precisely what make the tradeoffs worthwhile.
The next day as we drove through Deming we passed another Walmart, and I counted at least a dozen trailers and RVs lined up in the far reaches of the lot. Down the road, Rockhound State Park, our missed destination the night before, was overflowing with a scrum of fifth wheels crowded聽together on the free gravel spots outside the gates. The camp host offered us a patch in the group site with four other rigs, but we declined. The mountains to the south were a patchwork of state and Bureau of Land Management acreage. By early afternoon, we鈥檇 found another isolated backcountry site, rolled out the awning, and were in for a week alone in the hills.