Government-subsidized preschools, 480 days paid maternity leave, neighborhood rec centers, ample recess, forest kindergartens, drop-in after school programs (aka fritids), outdoor classrooms, public access to private lands, and open-air napping. These are just some of the perks of raising kids in Scandinavia, where friluftsliv, the Swedish term for living close to nature, isn鈥檛 just a parenting strategy, it鈥檚 a way of life.
鈥Friluftsliv can encompass anything from hiking to berry picking and fishing or be as simple as going for a nature walk or bike ride near one鈥檚 home,鈥 writes Linda 脜keson McGurk in her new book, . Friluftsliv isn鈥檛 competitive; it鈥檚 simply a chance to get outside and enjoy nature鈥攚inter or summer, day or night, rain or shine, mud, sleet, or snow.
鈥淚t would be very easy to make excuses for not going outside,鈥 writes McGurk, who was born and raised in Sweden and moved to the United States after graduating from journalism school. For much of the year, the days are notoriously cold, wet, and dark, but the climate doesn鈥檛 dampen the Swedes鈥 fervent enthusiasm for friluftsliv. If anything, it stokes it. With an abundance of forests and wild places, even in urban Stockholm (40 percent of the city is public open space), Scandinavian children enjoy more unstructured outdoor playtime鈥攖he average preschooler in Stockholm spends six hours outside each day in good weather and an impressive 90 minutes in winter鈥攁nd a healthier balance between screen time and green time.
Last year, McGurk and her two daughters, ages six and nine, experienced the discrepancies between the car-centric United States and nature–obsessed Scandinavia when they moved back to Sweden for six months to help her ailing father. It was there that she became determined to spread the gospel of friluftsliv to American parents. Reader beware: There鈥檚 No Such Thing as Bad Weather may make you want to up and move to Sweden. (Even McGurk is trying to find a way to spend more time there.) For most of us, that鈥檚 not realistic. Fortunately, McGurk has plenty of tips for injecting some much-needed friluftsliv into your family and community.
#1. Think Small
鈥淣ot all encounters with nature have to be grand,鈥 says McGurk. 鈥淣ature is everywhere, not just in the national parks. There are always things to look at, trees shifting color, flowers blooming. It鈥檚 all about embracing the little moments in life.鈥 Even feeling the breeze on your face creates a connection with nature that correlates with improved health and greater happiness. Go outside for a walk, collect leaves in the backyard, play in the park, and dig in the dirt.
鈥淟et your kids get dirty as much as possible,鈥 writes McGurk. 鈥淢ost germs in our environment are completely harmless, and some are even beneficial to our health and well-being.鈥 You don鈥檛 have to go far, but it鈥檚 important to start early and go often. 鈥淪pending time outdoors is one of the few things that a child really needs in the early years, and when you make it part of your everyday life it becomes second nature,鈥 says McGurk.
#2. Be the Squeaky Wheel
鈥淣ature is so integral to our health, but it has to be accessible, and that鈥檚 not the case for most communities in the U.S.,鈥 says McGurk, who explains that the idea is slowly catching on, with doctors prescribing nature time for kids with ADHD or who show symptoms associated with a lack of activity. 鈥淏ut there鈥檚 lots of work to be done on a city level to grow green spaces and make communities more walkable. It鈥檚 not a sexy topic, but so much of our experience of nature can be done by walking or biking,鈥 which is not always the safest thing for kids to do, particularly on crowded streets.
Sometimes progress is as simple as picking up the phone. Last spring, I called my city鈥檚 road safety department to ask that a crosswalk be put in at a busy intersection on my daughters鈥 way to school. There鈥檚 no crossing guard, and drivers routinely blow through the four-way stop without looking. I expected my request to die quietly in a bottomless pit of bureaucracy, but two days later, I got a call back from the city, and a week later, thick, white lines appeared on the road. Takeaway: Speak up for your child鈥檚 right to safe open spaces, parks, sidewalks, and walking routes. You鈥檒l be doing everyone a favor.
#3. Establish Freedom Zones
Unstructured, unsupervised outdoor play builds resilience, fosters coordination, strengthens sensory awareness, and improves decision-making skills. 鈥淲hen children play in nature they tend to be calm yet alert,鈥 writes McGurk. Encourage kids to venture forth on their own by creating safe parameters where they鈥檙e allowed to roam beyond the prying eyes of parents. 鈥淚f we look at the stats, it really isn鈥檛 more dangerous now to let kids play outside,鈥 says McGurk. 鈥淭he only difference is that we hear more about the horrible incidents.鈥
Her suggestion: Start by creating an organized nature playgroup 鈥渢o get to know each other, then hopefully that could branc